Question
I am a 26 year old girl and have been an active lesbian for the last 2 years.  I am not out of the closet at the time and some people know and some do not know that i am a lesbian but i do not like to flaunt that i am.  Where i work, one of my coworkers is a lesbian and in a serious relationship and she knows me too. One of his friends who also is a co-worker, I am very attracted. My friend told me recently that I’m attracted to have been bi-curious since I was seven years old. So I asked my friend to let you know that a woman was interested. The appeal to me told my friend he would talk with me tomorrow at work. Therefore, my question is, I have no idea how to really break the ice with her. I do not want her to feel uncomfortable or anything like that. Nor am I necessarily aggressive … unless the person you want .. hehe. Have a suggestion for what not to send its execution in the other direction, or any suggestions on what NOT to say? Any help is appreciated. Thanks

Answer
It seems there must be some interest there, or had not said he would talk with you at work. So the door is ajar, and all you have to do is a kind of tour. A good way to do this would be asked if you would like to go for coffee after work, or maybe a movie. Personally, I like the look better coffee because it gives the opportunity to talk to each other. BUT, if you are worried about having something to talk about a movie that gives the opportunity to spend some time together and then talk about the movie afterwards. It must be simple at first, ask how long have you worked there (though if you know) and if she likes … and maybe, just maybe, have an opening to say something like “I go out with someone at work?”)

Only you, find out what your interests are, what you enjoy doing and maybe you will find some things in common that will allow the two to go the next step.

What to say? Hmmmm …. It just depends on the person. Probably, “do you have any dental dams” on the first date can send to your implementation but hey for some women who work!

Good luck!

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